Three Common Causes of Divorce

In the United States, around 40 to 50 percent of marriages end in divorce. This rate may seem staggering, but the divorce rate has in fact begun to decrease in recent years. Despite this decrease, numbers remain high, and they bring up the question of why so many people who committed to one another for a lifetime end up splitting. Cynics may assert that the institution of marriage itself has become obsolete or that humans are not meant for the monogamy associated with marriage. However, such explanations tend to generalize the failings of marriages and ignore the specific and recurring causes that lead to such failures. Specific reasons provide a better explanation as to why marriages fail and give a better understanding of the nature of marriage, commitment, and divorce. We delve into three of the most common causes of divorce below.

1. Infidelity: Infidelity remains one of the leading causes of divorce today, which offers some credibility to the argument that humans are not meant for monogamy. However, for every person who cheats there is one who does not. Although infidelity is a huge breach of trust—one that many cannot move past—it is often symptomatic of larger issues in the relationship.
2. Incompatibility: Many couples marry too soon in their relationship and assume compatibility is there that may not exist long-term. Research shows that couples who marry younger tend to date for shorter periods than couples who marry later, and longer courtship periods are associated with lower rates of divorce.
3. Lack of communication: Lack of communication is an issue in many types of relationships at different stages, and it is especially prevalent in marriages. Lack of communication can lead to breaches of trust, unhappiness, and even infidelity. Learning to talk things out openly, patiently, and without anger or hidden agendas can prevent lack of communication from becoming an issue in many relationships. Communicating can potentially save couples from separation or divorce.

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Divorce is a difficult process for many people and can cause considerable emotional and financial strain. If you or a loved one is going through a divorce, it is important to have experienced legal counsel to ensure your assets are safe and the proceedings are fair. Here at the Law Offices of Baden V. Mansfield, we understand how challenging divorces can be and are here to help you through every step of the process. If you would like to set up an appointment with a qualified Manhattan Beach divorce attorney, please contact us at [phone-number] today.